Safety Plan Before The Next Outburst:
- Decide on a safety plan to alert a friend or shelter that you are leaving and need support.
- When arguing move to the lowest risk space (a room with no weapons and access to outside doors).
- Locate all possible escape routes.
- Keep your purse in an easily accessible place.
- Teach the children to dial 911.
- Make arrangements for family pets.
- Start your own bank account.
- Leave before the violence starts, if possible taking the children with you.
Pack a bag with the following items and leave it in a safe place (neighbour,friend,work)
- Money, change for phone, phone cards.
- Extra set of clothes and shoes for yourself and the children.
- Medications and prescriptions.
- Extra set of keys for house, car and work.
- Emergency phone numbers (Shelters)
- Toys for children.
- Items of special sentimental value.
- Copies of Important Documents (See below).
Take copies or original of the following with you:
- Birth Certificates
- Social Insurance Numbers
- Drivers License and registration.
- Passport.
- Address book.
- Divorce papers or seperation agreement.
- Custody agreements.
- Insurance papers.
- Lease or mortage papers.
- Restraining order or peace bond.
- Bank book.
- School and vaccination records.
- Alberta Health Care numbers.